Unfortunately, in today’s world, we need to teach personal safety for kids. Get resources for teaching young kids about strangers and potentially dangerous people and situations. Growing up my family had a board game called Strangers and Dangers. It was like the game of Life only the choices weren’t “pick up a wife” and “go […]
Keeping kids healthy and hydrated can be a challenge during summer break. Warm weather and freedom from school can lull us into a false sense of security. Summer is full of all sorts of fun and adventures. Swimming, sprinklers, hiking and camping, fun camps and playgroups. The options are limitless! And of course it’s not […]
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Some days being a kid is just plain stressful. Use these poses to teach your kids yoga for stress relief. It’s a skill they need to learn now so they can use it in the future. Now that you’re a little way into summer, it feels appropriate to revisit coping with trauma. LOL! How are […]
My pre-teen nieces and nephews no longer play with regular toys, they only want apps or games for their Ipads. When they visit, they are usually glued to their screens. I worry what long term effects this has on our youth; how it may affect their adaptability and safety. I ran across this article and thought it brings up good points. So I am posting it with permission. Is Technology Dumbing Down our Kids? by Joseph Mack This post originally […]
While parents try to survive the roller coaster of summer break, you can channel your kid’s competitive side with this fun Summer Survivor Challenge! Summer break is upon us! I really wrestle with summer break! I love that my schedule and demands die down and we have some freedom to explore and play, BUT I […]
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If you’d asked me 16 years ago if I’d be ready for when the SHTF, I would’ve answered yes without any kind of hesitation. After all, I was single, I was a Ground Team Leader in the Air Force Auxiliary unit Civil Air Patrol, I had worked as an Armed Security Agent, was working in the airlines, and had taken a multitude of camping, firearms, first aid, and survival courses. In the chaos of 9/11 I’d been told that I’d handled myself admirably and with a cool and level head by my co-workers and supervisors. I felt prepared.
Then I met my wife-to-be, moved across the country, and settled into suburban life.
As the years passed my emergency gear went by the wayside, my skills waned a bit, and I had to sell my sidearm at one point in order to afford to move to where jobs were available at due to recession. I didn’t think too much about getting back into emergency preparedness because I had work to do, education to finish, and the everyday chores of life to deal with. It wasn’t until the last couple of years ago when my wife and I became parents of two lovely children that we adopted. Once the process was over, my wife said words that I’d never thought that I’d hear from her:
“I want to prepare for the worst.”
At first you could’ve knocked me over with a feather as I never thought she’d want to become a pepper. Then I wanted to shout my elation at the green light to do something that I’ve been wanting to do again for so long. Heck, I got the go-ahead to buy guns again (Hello AR-7 and Ruger 22/45!). As I started delving back into the world of prepping by looking at articles, making lists, buying supplies, I had to stop for a moment because there was something that I hadn’t counted on having back in my Civil Air Patrol days. There was now a new factor to the equation: Prepping with Kids.
My Children are 9 and 2. I’ve found that I had to modify my lists to suit their needs and capabilities along with my own (especially after seeing a tear-jerking video on Facebook last year about a family bugging out over the course of a year between the daughter’s birthdays). This is what I came up with and your own mileage may vary on how your own situation might be similar or different from my own.
What is your disaster plan?
This was the big question for us. What was our plan for when the SHTF happens? Were we going to bug out or bug in? As we live in Alaska now, I realize that we have an abundance of resources around us, a decent community that we live in, and we’re pretty isolated. So bugging out will probably only happen in the event that our town is evacuated for whatever reason. So getting BOBs was high on the list and I started getting the 5-Day Packs available at our local stores. Ultimately it’s going to be a bug-in scenario as all of our resources are where we live along with people that we know and can trust.
But what about your children?
While I love my kids, they are going to be a liability that I’ll need to consider in an emergency situation. Thankfully my 9-year-old has a level head and knows how to decently handle themselves when things get bad. They love the outdoors, can carry a basic BOB on their shoulders, and likes helping mom and dad around the house. I have started taking them to the local gun range to teach safety and shooting with my new .22 rifle and handgun that I mentioned above. I’d chosen those as they’d be easy for my kids to learn on, they’re lightweight and easily concealable if we need to go on a long walk, the ammo is interchangeable between the two of them, and they’ll be effective for hunting small game in the area. My 2-year-old, however, is a big concern as they’re still in diapers. My toddler can walk for maybe a mile and has lots of energy but right now a bug out bag weighs as much as they do! Their needs will need to be met in a time-frame that could last from a week to a year or more. Some of the major things of concern are:
One would think “Costco!” at once for the diaper solution but you also have to realize that your kids will be growing. If the SHTF tomorrow, and you just recently bought in bulk, then great! But if it happens a month from now, a year from now, or two years from now, those diapers that you squirreled away might not fit, especially if you have a growing newborn to consider. So while we’re doing potty training with my toddler, I am being mindful of reusable diaper and wipe solutions and taking into consideration shelf stable milk that I’ll be able to store in the meantime. With reusable diapers and wipes also comes the problem of clean clothes so another thing that I’m in the process of looking at is how we’re going to be doing our laundry if the power goes out and stays out (I’m looking real fondly at my kids’ bike chains now and how I can attach it to a washer cylinder).
Bugging Out with a Toddler
There’s only two ways out of our town: Boat and Airplane. Three if you count trekking it across wilderness to the next nearest town but I live in a State where everything wants to kill you the moment you walk out your front door in the middle of civilization (yes, I have had black bears on my front doorstep before with nothing but a pane of glass between us). So walking out of here is not really an option unless we get to super desperation stage, and we’re talking SyFy channel level of desperation in which a glacier is advancing at Mach 5 with a Sharknado on top of it while a San Andres Movie level earthquake is hitting the area. I’d throw in zombies but we’re already so jaded up here with them coming off the cruise ships in droves every summer. Realistically, and in all seriousness, if it comes down to a government enforced evacuation it’s going to be by ferry or by airplane. While I highly doubt that we’ll be able to take our vehicle with us even on the ferry, that means we’re going to have to rely what we can carry ourselves.
I’m getting there. As I mentioned before, one of our BOBs is the same weight as my toddler. So that means that either my wife or I will have to carry them while the other doubles or even triples up on the bags. In this kind of situation I’m looking at getting a frame backpack for kids that my toddler can ride and at the same time I’ll be able to carry a BOB (if anyone knows of a survival BOB/kid carrier, I’d be grateful for a link). In addition to the above items listed for my 2 year old’s BOB to last for five days, I also have to consider entertainment/distractions while we’re in the process of evacuation. For this I recommend buying multiple versions of your child’s favorite toy and/or stuffed animal and putting it in their BOB. That way if you’re leaving in a hurry, you don’t have to waste valuable time wondering where Mister Bear is at when you have one already tucked away and ready to go. One of your child’s favorite blankets might be something to consider for their comfort and peace of mind if you’re in the process of evacuating with them. If your child is anything like my toddler; then they’re going to want something comforting and familiar that reminds them of home while you’re on the move to safety.
I guess that in the end it comes down to the ages of your kids, what they’re capable of, and how much extra you’re going to have to put away in order to see to their basic needs. As time goes on, we go longer (Lord and Lady willing) without an event occurring, and as your children get older, their needs will naturally change until they’re at such an age that they can reasonably handle themselves in the event of a crisis. They’ll also learn from the example that you set for them and from what you teach them as you prep. These are skills that they’ll have with them forever. Teach them skills to survive, teach them how to keep a cool head, and don’t panic yourself. That, and a little common sense and hopefully you’ll come out of any situation reasonably intact.
Hands on coping activities for kids with trauma. Try implementing these 5 tips on a daily basis or add them to your regular routine as-needed basis. As promised here are some hands-on activities to do with your kids to help with coping. These activities will help with general stress and frustration for kids, as well […]
We are so excited for tonight! Preparedness fairs are the best and you’ll find that there is always something new to learn from them. We’re really looking forward to being able to share the Lake Oswego Oregon Preparedness Fair with you over at Facebook LIVE. Tune in HERE at our Facebook Page at 5 PM Pacific […]
10 reasons why you need to understand trauma and its effect on your family. Resilience is possible with a plan in place and knowledge to see you through. Judging by the fact you are on a site called PreparednessMama, I’m going to safely assume you are a planner or at least feel a desire to […]
We can be blissfully unaware of our surroundings and distracted much more than we realize. Teaching situational awareness to kids can be lifesaving. Being married to a soldier changes how you view the world. Especially if you have a spouse who has served overseas and in combat. They struggle with crowded or confusing places and […]
I grew up in the early 1980’s at the height of the Cold War, and my parents were very paranoid about communist Russia. In fact, Red Dawn was one of their favorite movies. I was less than 10 years old when they warned me that a scenario like Red Dawn could happen someday soon. Naturally, […]
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Color Me Prepared! Coloring books are all the rage and zen these days. Which is great because there’s nothing that makes my heart soar and calms my nerves like coloring. I tend to buy coloring books for myself as much as my kids, and we have a substantial library of coloring book options and tools. […]
A preparedness challenge for all ages. The key to transferring the disaster obstacle course game into real preparedness is the conversation after you finish. Your family will love this game! January has been a month of surviving! Snowstorms, ice storms, winter break, snow days, sick days, the flu (2x), and an ear infection all visited […]
It’s time to get back on track… I’m a hardcore list maker so New Year’s resolutions make me giddy. I love the idea and hope of a new year. Most of all I love opportunities for growth, improvement, and learning. As I finish an incredibly crazy busy, change-filled year, I find that my preparedness goals […]
Teaching Kids The Prepper Mindset Teaching your kids to be able to take care of themselves using the resources around them is invaluable. A prepper mindset is something that has to be learned. While most of the modern world considers this to be getting a job and paying bills, preppers and homesteaders tend to look …
As you practice gratitude your overall resilience will increase. Get tools to help increase gratitude and resilience in kids every day. Gratitude is a big topic this time of year. Although if you’re like me and trying to prepare for Thanksgiving dinner or travel, gratitude is the farther thing from your mind. We always have […]
If there’s anything we are really good at it’s creating and being stressed. We can be a poster child for burning the candle at both ends, and sometimes in the middle. We are not alone in this. With our stress load, we can get together and create a burnt-out anonymous group! As we enter the […]
It’s time to update the plan Yay! (Insert happy dance). School is back in session and I can hardly contain my happiness at having order, (or something like it) return to my home. Even the chaos of the first month while getting settled in school is superior to the craziness of summer break. I love the […]
Practice is the key to anything you want to do well. I’ve written about some of the lesser known or acknowledged aspects of preparedness over the last few months. Hopefully, it’s opened your eyes to a new understanding of what a prepared home looks like. Preparedness is a lifestyle in itself that requires awareness and […]
Camping teaches important survival skills and provides opportunities to sharpen them. Summer has been super crazy and super busy for my family this year. Unfortunately, it means we haven’t been able to go camping or hiking yet. My husband can attest to the fact I get a little high strung if I don’t get a […]
For most parents, summer break has begun in all is fantastic fun and chaos. We often have a love-hate relationship with summer break. We love the freedom and opportunities but hate the lack of schedule and how our kids respond to it. Which is why this topic is incredibly pertinent for all of us right […]
The foundation for prepared children As parents, we strive hard to teach good habits to our children, but sometimes we forget to explain the importance and worth of obedience chores and cleanliness to our children. When we help them understand why these habits are important we help them become internalized. So, if you’re not enforcing […]
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The thing that frightens me the most about an unexpected disaster is being separated from my family and unable to get to them. I work from home, but my wife works 30 minutes away and my son goes to a school 10 minutes away, which means we spend almost a third of every weekday away […]
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An essential preparedness skill. Editor: Welcome back, Tyra! We’re excited to have you as a monthly contributor for the “Prepping With Kids” series. First off, I have to say how excited I am to be back at PreparednessMama! Oh, how I’ve missed y’all! Thank you for being such supportive and fantastic readers! We are so […]
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Children between ages 8 and 10 spend around 5 1/2 hours every day using media, according to a media usage report by the Ganz Cooney Center and the Sesame Workshop. But in reality, they’re exposed to eight hours a day of media because they’re often multitasking, watching cartoons […]
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